'..he knew too that this wasn't about what turned him on. It was about what turned Slader on. It was the old joke writ large: the masochist says "Hurt me" ...and the sadist says "No!"'
“It's now very common to hear people say, 'I'm rather offended by that.' As if that gives them certain rights. It's actually nothing more... than a whine. 'I find that offensive.' It has no meaning; it has no purpose; it has no reason to be respected as a phrase. 'I am offended by that.' Well, so fucking what."
― Stephen Fry (on censorship)